Some fingers are naturally big. Go for gems that are rarer than diamonds. Jackie Kennedy and the Duchess of Windsor proudly showed the planet their emerald engagement rings. Jackie Kennedy and the Duchess of Windsor proudly showed the entire world their emerald engagement rings.
Most importantly though, it says that you might be committed to everlasting beauty, a beauty that goes deeper than looks, a beauty that is really as eternal as a diamond. If you really want to make a statement, you definitely want to take a take a look at the huge Harry Winston 68 carat pear shaped engagement ring. The ideal pear cut diamond has 58 facets plus a length to width ratio of 5:1 though this is subject to personal preference. The sharpest point is considered probably the most ideal, though the actual cut can vary depending about the taste of the individual cutting the stone so feel free to choose what looks best to your eye.