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A few months ago future FIL was his usual self and majorly pissed off his oldest son. Not my drama to share, but OBIL has him in a TO. OBIL is about 40. The TO is, in my opinion, well justified. FFIL is an ass, all three of Cheap Jordan Shoes his sons will admit it and none of the women in the family can stand him. We put up with him because the guys want him around for some ungodly reason.

I am being induced tomorrow with our first baby, a boy. My parents (who are normal, nonboundary stomping) and FMIL (also normal, divorced for 30 years from FFIL) will be waiting room warriors and are welcome. FFIL will not be waiting because, frankly, he doesn't care. The baby's aunts and uncles (my brother, SO's brother's, everyone's wives) will be visiting the next day, and I assume that's when FFIL will show up at the hospital. SO knows that his parents/family will not be visiting us at home until I am ready to see them, but that my own parents may come sooner. Lemon Clot Air Jordans For Sale essay and all that.

I genuinely like OBIL and his wife, but my SO is presently a little hurt that OBIL can't "be the bigger person" and "get over it." We talked about it today (didn't argue) but in the context of a different event. I asked why SO felt that it was OBIL's responsibility to be the bigger person, and he said that "well Dad's always been like this." AFAIK FFIL does not know he's in a TO but they have very clearly dropped the rope with him.

So here's where I need advice/opinions. Should I insist that we deliberately schedule FFIL and OBIL's visits at different times? Talk to OBIL? Talk to OBIL's wife (who I am a little more comfortable with)? If FFIL does not come to the hospital and decides he wants to visit before I am ready for visitors, http://www.airjordanhot.com/index.php there are going to be some serious firework between SO I over it.

A few months ago future FIL was his usual self and majorly pissed off his oldest son. Not my drama to share, but OBIL has him in a TO. OBIL is about 40. The TO is, in my opinion, well justified. FFIL is an ass, all three of his sons will admit it and none of the women in the family can stand him. We put up with him because the guys want him around for some ungodly reason.

I am being induced tomorrow with our first baby, a boy. My parents (who are normal, nonboundary stomping) and FMIL (also normal, divorced for 30 years from FFIL) will be waiting room warriors and are welcome. FFIL will not be waiting because, frankly, he doesn't care. The baby's aunts and uncles (my brother, SO's brother's, everyone's wives) will be visiting the next day, and I assume that's when FFIL will show up at the hospital. SO knows that his parents/family will not be visiting us at home until I am ready to see them, but that my own parents may come sooner. Lemon Clot essay and all that.

I genuinely like OBIL and his wife, but my SO is presently a little hurt that OBIL can't "be the bigger person" and "get over it." We talked about it today (didn't argue) but in the context of a different event. I asked why SO felt that it was OBIL's responsibility to be the bigger person, and he said that "well Dad's always been like this." AFAIK FFIL does not know he's in a TO but they have very clearly dropped the rope with him.

So here's where I need advice/opinions. Should I insist that we deliberately schedule FFIL and OBIL's visits at different times? Talk to OBIL? Talk to OBIL's wife (who I am a little more comfortable with)? Air Jordan If FFIL does not come to the hospital and decides he wants to visit before I am ready for visitors, there are going to be some serious firework between SO I over it.