So many people are in frienship or have hadiah ulang tahun untuk pacar, kado ulang tahun untuk pacar but don't really know the real meaning of friendship. So, prepare yourself to learn about Friendship.
Friendship is a state to be emotionally to another person, caused by feelings of affection. It is also a warm and intimate relationship with someone you prefer and trust. Friends provide a basic source of happiness, pleasure and companionship.
The importance of friendship cannot be . Friendship is important because: Young people learn social skills through friendship It offers opportunities for young people to talk about experiences and insights Skills gained in articulating feelings and thoughts will be helpful throughout life It promotes self-esteem It helps in building self-confidence It provides companionship It involves fun, sharing and caring It promotes mutual respect Appropriate inter-personal communication skills are developed
There are ways to develop friendship skills. Included in these are: Keep secrets and build trust Develop understanding and empathy Practice active listening skills by i.Establish eye connection with the other person ii.Listen to the person without interruption iii.Pay attention to the person without thinking about what you will say next iv.Empathize with the individual as he or she is speaking v.Use "I" statements
There are however behaviours and qualities that enhances friendship, included in these are: Forgiveness Trust Loyalty Capability to keep confidences Cooperation Honesty Shared interests Support during bad and the good times Reliability Empathy Respect Understanding Affection Sympathy
Friendship have to be improved and the way where it could be improved are: Having group activities Sharing information Exchanging gifts Sharing goals and aspirations Visiting each other's family and other friends Dating, without expectation for shared sex Solving assignments together Giving support in times of trouble Making positive comments about each other Having fun together
Due to the need for friendship, it is very important that friends must make all efforts to keep their friends and make new ones. There is a song that goes thus: "make new friends, and keep carefully the old ones! One is silver and the other is Gold". Old friends are like Gold and the brand new friends can be in comparison to silver. But with time, even the brand new friends becomes Gold. That is why you need to put quality in choosing friends and family and know the behaviours that may destroy it. Behaviours that could destroy friendship include: Gossiping Disclosing confidential information Bullying Peer pressure Dishonesty Selfishness Suspicious Disrespect Misunderstanding Betrayal of trust
I hope you have learn so much about friendship and right now, you should be in a position to make good friends (or even you can become an excellent friend too) who could be trusted and relied upon in times of need. You have learnt also, the important of friendship.
You need to review your friendship list consistent with whaat you read in this article. Remember your other friends too may be doing the same. Ofcourse you should e-mail this article to all your friends too. In order that together you should understand how too improve your friendship and get the best out of it. All the best.