How Ladies Appreciate Eroticism Through Sex Stories
Most heterosexual ladies do not masturbate. They also do not find the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that appealing. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and study erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are frequently associated with lesbianism. Perhaps this is why so a lot female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex in between women.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual ladies but I am straight. I like male body components, male psyche and sexual acts involving men. The lady is incidental. I appreciate homosexual erotica simply because I imagine myself on the getting finish of fellatio or anal sex, for instance.
Female erotica frequently includes humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do women associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just enjoy the eroticism of sexual activity without anybody being forced into anything against their will (not usually but mostly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Given there is so much out there I have read my share. One book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was quite relieved when I ultimately tired of the never-ending discomfort. My conclusion is that the idea of sadism may get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, in contrast to pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I often struggle to discover sex stories for ladies that can assist with orgasm. I have to wonder though... what else does anybody study this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly few ladies relate to her findings. This is simply because most women method sex through their partnership with their lover. They have no concept of enjoying their personal sexual arousal through clitoral stimulation. Equally they have never discovered the pleasures of sexual fantasies.
I study Hite when I was twenty and I understood that clitoral stimulation was critical to female orgasm from masturbation. Nevertheless, clitoral stimulation never seemed to assist with my sexual arousal throughout sex with my companion. The reality is that even during female masturbation, clitoral stimulation only leads to orgasm when it is combined with the use of sexual fantasies.