How Women Appreciate Eroticism Via Sex Stories
Most heterosexual women do not masturbate. They also do not discover the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that attractive. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and study erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often associated with lesbianism. Maybe this is why so much female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex in between women.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual ladies but I am straight. I like male physique components, male psyche and sexual acts involving males. The woman is incidental. I enjoy homosexual erotica simply because I envision myself on the getting end of fellatio or anal sex, for example.
Female erotica frequently consists of humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do women associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just appreciate the eroticism of sexual activity with out anybody being forced into anything against their will (not always but mostly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Given there is so much out there I have read my share. One book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was fairly relieved when I eventually tired of the never-ending pain. My conclusion is that the concept of sadism may get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, in contrast to pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I frequently struggle to discover sex stories for women that can assist with orgasm. I have to wonder although... what else does anyone read this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly couple of ladies relate to her findings. This is because most women approach sex through their partnership with their lover. They have no idea of enjoying their own sexual arousal via clitoral stimulation. Equally they have by no means found the pleasures of sexual fantasies.
I read Hite when I was twenty and I understood that clitoral stimulation was critical to female orgasm from masturbation. Nevertheless, clitoral stimulation never seemed to help with my sexual arousal during sex with my companion. The reality is that even throughout female masturbation, clitoral stimulation only leads to orgasm when it is combined with the use of sexual fantasies.