I'm certain you've heard of the old "tale" of the girl who puts a love spell on a specific boy, causing him to dangerously obsess over her. She then has a stalker on her hands. Of course this isn't always the case, and that doesn't occur every single time a specific love spell is cast. Whilst one should usually use caution when performing a love spell or getting a love spell cast on their behalf, they don't always necessarily backfire.
For instance, if you already have a connection with somebody, a love spell *may* be advantageous in "spicing things up more" so to speak. If you have currently had somebody that you miss and would like to reunite with, you could cast a love spell to help "rekindle the flame" if you indeed really feel in your heart that you're meant to be with that person.
Of course you should usually be careful when casting any love spells. I know if you've already been contemplating it, there's nothing that will quit you. Sometimes we all have to try and experiment anyway. Just make absolutely certain that you really wish to be with that individual. There are many totally free love spells available out there if you want to try them on your personal, but occasionally a much more experienced witch is needed to help you.
An experienced witch or other occultist already has spiritual connections. They may also be psychic as nicely, and can give you some insight on the love spells, and whether they ought to be cast.
Here are some suggestions to consider when casting love spells or having them cast on your behalf. The more you follow these suggestions, the better the outcome:
o Remain positive. It can be hard to sometimes, but you ought to associate only positive thoughts and emotions with your love interest. You do not want to send out mixed signals to the Universe.
o Don't turn out to be discouraged or frustrated. It will create negative energy, therefore potential blocks.
o Attempt to visualize a pleased outcome for the love spell at least a few minutes a day. Envision being with your love interest. Attempt using all of your senses to get a clear image as possible.
o Try not to obsess too a lot over the love spell and your love interest. When considering about the situation and your love interest, only believe good. But at the exact same time, try to do other things throughout the day that make you pleased
o Occasionally results from a love spell will happen during a time when you might least anticipate it. This is why it's extremely important not to dwell and obsess more than the scenario.
o Remember to thank the Universe and your God/Goddess frequently for providing you a opportunity to be with your love interest. Even if you're not with them physically yet, still let your God/Goddess know that you appreciate them. Have faith that the love magic will work.
If you really feel in your heart that you belong with a certain person, then there is absolutely nothing that I can say that will convince you otherwise.