First of all, congratulations to anyone who has decided to hold off on giving away their virginity, or refraining from further sexual activity. In this day and age, abstinence is a very wise, mature, and difficult choice to make. I want to help you maintain that decision, even when it seems difficult.
Sex: It All Starts in the Mind
It is important to understand that just because you have decided not to have sex doesn't mean that you will not be tempted. Thoughts will cross your mind, and you will consider the possibility of forgetting about your promise. Remember, this does not make you a bad person, and you should not feel guilty for having the desire. Sexual desire is a