CONFUSED

 So he says you are the one for him ,the one who has convinced him that he needs to change and become a better person yet he expects you to compromise your principles morals and standards inorder for you to be together.Should you stay or should you go ? will you be happy if you stay ? will you survive the pain of leaving him him? who knows .

but then is love all that it takes to make a relationship work or you need more sometimes love just isnt enough , sometimes you just need more than love.

Is love all about sex ? can it work without the sex ? will he stay without the sex ? should you compromise you morals just because you want to be with him.

If he loves you as much as he says he does shouldnt he understand that you are just not ready ,that this is not who you are,is love suposed to change you ,can you risk losing who you really are change all that defines you just for love.

will it still be love when its destroying you making you forget yourself when you lose control over your own life is it still love or you are now moving towards your end your destruction.

All these are qustions that l have constantly asked but failed to find an answer to but today as the tears flow down my cheeks and l feel the pain of having my heart ripped out of my chest l say no more love should complement who you are not destroy ,love should understand ,love should be patients,love should build you love should make you rejoice and enjoy being yourself love should bring you happiness.

BUT THEN CAN WE EVER CHOOSE WHO TO FALL IN LOVE WITH,WHEN TO FALL IN LOVE,HOW TO FALL IN LOVE WELL OBVIOUSLY NO BUT WE CAN CHOOSE NOT TO CONTINUE GETTING HURT AND STAND OUR GROUND FOR LOVE SHOULD NEVER BRING PAIN