go ahead, my friend
Dickens 100 years ago, once he said: "This is the best of times, it was the worst of times; it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness; it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity; it is the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness; it is the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair; in front of people with all sorts of things before the people nothing; people are direct to heaven, people are straight to hell. "
In fact, the era of Dickens life is nothing compared with now. At least as good as the wealth gap is so big now, people's moral decline is better now serious. Therefore this phrase used to describe our 21 century, in fact, re-fitting.
Living in today's China is really not easy. Men and women is not easy, this is a great truth. For a house, car, sexy clothes, tickets, child, seat, people often busy mentally exhausted, bruised and battered. Many people even once world-weary mood.
But in fact, we should not be overly pessimistic. Because of this era, but it is still a lot of opportunities. Do not you see how much upstart, a few days ago, or a pair of lackluster appearance, turned the corner after among the upper classes. So the opportunity to "Cock wire counter-attack" is still a lot of. And this story staged every day.
Please remember my words, it will make you benefit forever.
First, the more in the face of adversity, the more you want to learn to be strong. The more adversity, the more you want to keep the confidence. The heavier the ball fall, bounce higher, many people have said so. But forget the reason why this sentence was established, there must be a precondition, that is, the ball must not be deflated. So we in the face of setbacks, they must not lose out confidence.
Second, to adjust their goals. If the direction is wrong, in fact, they are each a step back to move forward. Absolutely can not use one way.
Third, not blind comparisons. Life is the most important thing is to learn with everybody, with their ratio. A lot of friends around the sun of his own happiness, and perhaps live not happy. The so-called "life more lacking in what the people, the more they like to show off what", that is the truth.
Fourth, do not complain. Studies have shown that the more people who like to complain, the more the poor. Taiwan goes saying goes, "One eyebrow to decide their fate, eyebrow lucky to come." Instead of complaining of darkness, as lit candles! Absolutely can not let the negative energy to occupy his head.
Fifth, we must keep up the team, with the right people. Learn to know people, employers, and distinguish people, look, understand people's skills. This will let you in the workplace, in society, and even in the intelligence field has become even easier.