There is a Reason for Everything

Sometimes I don't get it why there are people who can do evil things like ruining a complete family. Are they that lonely that they would love to destroy one? Are they that unhappy enough to not let other people be happy? Why? Can they be happy if they would make also other people be miserable?
But then I realized, it's also unfair to blame it all to them, yes, they just initiated actions and it is up to the people involved if they would let these things enter their system. Somehow, they are blessings in disguise that would let people understand things deeply and let their personality grow and be better.

If we are just be open minded enough, then less argument are present, but sad to say most of us are close minded and some are self-centered. Sometimes, it's all in the mind and most of the time,it's all because of emotion.