that ring does not mean you are happy

I really do not know if it was the greed or something else. I am a young married woman age21 got married when i was 19 just after i did my matric. I was told to commit my self to any man yet,but no i did not want to hear anyone i was so much in love n i went on with the wedding:-). The happiness only lasted for a year and a few months. Now i am bored i want to enjoy my life go out with friends and party. My husband will never allow such all he wants is for me to sit at home and look at him in da eye...that ring does not mean you are happy