How Women Appreciate Eroticism Via Sex Stories
Most heterosexual women do not masturbate. They also do not find the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that appealing. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and study erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often associated with lesbianism. Maybe this is why so a lot female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex between women.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual ladies but I am straight. I like male physique components, male psyche and sexual acts involving males. The woman is incidental. I appreciate homosexual erotica simply because I envision myself on the getting end of fellatio or anal sex, for example.
Female erotica frequently consists of humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do women associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. Individuals just appreciate the eroticism of sexual activity without anybody becoming forced into something against their will (not usually but mainly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Offered there is so much out there I have read my share. 1 book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was quite relieved when I eventually tired of the never-ending discomfort. My conclusion is that the idea of sadism might get me going but, for me at least, it does not trigger orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, unlike pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I often struggle to discover sex stories for ladies that can help with orgasm. I have to wonder though... what else does anybody study this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly couple of ladies relate to her findings. This is simply because most ladies approach sex through their partnership with their lover. They have no idea of enjoying their own sexual arousal via clitoral stimulation. Equally they have never found the pleasures of sexual fantasies.
I read Hite when I was twenty and I understood that clitoral stimulation was crucial to female orgasm from masturbation. However, clitoral stimulation by no means seemed to assist with my sexual arousal throughout sex with my companion. The reality is that even during female masturbation, clitoral stimulation only leads to orgasm when it is combined with the use of sexual fantasies.