How Ladies Appreciate Eroticism Via Sex Stories
Most heterosexual women do not masturbate. They also do not find the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that attractive. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?
Presumably some lesbian ladies masturbate and study erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are frequently related with lesbianism. Maybe this is why so much female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex in between ladies.
No offence to lesbian or bisexual ladies but I am straight. I like male body components, male psyche and sexual acts involving men. The woman is incidental. I appreciate homosexual erotica because I envision myself on the receiving finish of fellatio or anal sex, for example.
Female erotica frequently consists of humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do ladies associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?
I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just appreciate the eroticism of sexual activity without anybody being forced into anything against their will (not always but mostly).
I admit that domination can be arousing. Offered there is so a lot out there I have read my share. One book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was quite relieved when I ultimately tired of the by no means-ending pain. My conclusion is that the concept of sadism might get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.
It was a revelation to me that, unlike pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I often struggle to discover sex stories for women that can assist with orgasm. I have to wonder though... what else does anyone study this stuff for?
Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly couple of ladies relate to her findings. This is because most ladies method sex via their relationship with their lover. They have no concept of enjoying their personal sexual arousal through clitoral stimulation. Equally they have by no means found the pleasures of sexual fantasies.
I read Hite when I was twenty and I understood that clitoral stimulation was crucial to female orgasm from masturbation. Nevertheless, clitoral stimulation never seemed to assist with my sexual arousal during sex with my partner. The fact is that even throughout female masturbation, clitoral stimulation only leads to orgasm when it is combined with the use of sexual fantasies.