The search for Love, The game called Date
You can deny as much as you want, but at the end of the day all you wanted was to impress the other end. Dates have always been about proving or getting validated. People never stopped from finding ways to get new partners and so the era of internet dating came with sites like a Badoo, Ashley Madison and Be2, dating is as easy as pushing a button. The increasing trend of online dating shows people's inclination toward finding a better pool of daters, sites like Badoo and be2 aim to provide the most suitable individual for their registered users. Recently, Tinder became very famous as a dating app because it revolutionized the dating experience.
There are sites which have stepped further up and are helping individuals finding a casual parters that are not looking for serious relationship, sites namely CDate and Ashley Madison. C Date’s tagline itself says casual matchmaking with class, while Ashley Madison’s is even more titillating “ Life is short, have an affair”. People are always attracted to the concept of impressing others with the idea of telling them as to how amazing they are and the stakes are seriously raised when the other partner is of the opposite sex.
Many people don’t have the drive and courage to go and talk to other people, while asking to go on a date is really not their cup of tea. The reason the online sites like Badoo, Be2 and C-Date are flourishing so well is because it does the first step of introducing itself, thus saving people those awkward stares and conversations that they had to do. People can very easily find their prospective match just by filling a small form or by tweaking the settings. Recently an article said that the online dating sites tend to fill individuals with fake sense of realization that they are smart and beautiful that few individuals stopped doing healthy habits and instead learnt smoking, etc. to be generalized as cool, this phenomenon was maximum in younger users.
One should realize that dating is a natural process and so should act like what they naturally do,there is no need to exaggerate or be dominant to the other individual and if using online sites to date one should be smart enough to realize as to who is good match over who just seems flashy, after all it’s a search for love with a game called Date.